"...What the man in his kindness & haste didn't understand was that the restricting cocoon and the struggle required for the butterfly to get through the tiny opening were God's way of forcing fluid from the body of the butterfly into its wings so that it would be ready for flight once it achieved its freedom from the cocoon.

Sometimes struggles are exactly what we need in our life. If God allowed us to go through our life without any obstacles, it would cripple us. We would not be as strong as what we could have been.
And we could never fly."

& Dear Friends even when sometimes we struggle and loose but, we gain experience , and actually we never loose if we see.

Atleast one should never loose the lessons even though one has lost a chance. 

 So lets create  WIN - WIN situations in our lives

Best Wishes